Help...listen to your heart or your head...things have to get better right?? ?

Well that's a good attitude to start with. Too many people lose hope which makes things worse. Yes it has to get better. It has no choice. No matter what he is going through,its just a "problem". Every problem has a "solution". Before he got off the meds for 4 months were they working good?I mean was things this way that they are now?or even close to it?I would suggest him talking to his doc and switching meds. You guys don't have to live like this. That's why they make meds. There has to be one that works like a charm for him. He jsut has to try a few different ones till the right one is found. Also he should try to find a 8 hour a day job. I know that's hard to do with bills and living expenses. But stress can multiply all these problems. Also if he don't have a counsler then he needs one asap. Docs or ok but therapist/counsler have all the skills for dealing with the problems he has and also more knowledge on what meds would work best. Sounds like u love him and ur the only one he's got. So hang in there. In the end it will make yall that much more stronger. God Bless